Where to look for a BDSM Partner
The best places to look for a BDSM partner will be found in your
daily life or nearby. There are many ways BDSM folks come together to
socialize and interact. I will cover a few of the
Munches, and other casual social gatherings.
Classes, demos, and conferences.
Parties and clubs.
Munches and other casual gatherings.
Many BDSM groups sponsor or host "Munches" , *for the
history and detailed information about munches see HERE*,
munches are a fun social gathering where like minded folks have the
chance to meet, greet, and flirt.
While many folks attending a munch may already be partnered or just
not looking, some folks attending munches do attend for the opportunity
presented to meet and possibly interact with other single/looking folks.
The main thing to remember is that the codes of conduct and etiquette
always apply to any interaction in the munch environment. Be on your
best manners, be charming, polite, courteous and pleasant company.
Munches are a wonderful way to meet new folks, but remember any group
organizer worth their salt, will be on the lookout for
"sharks" cruising for a quick playdate. Those individuals who
gain a reputation for cruising for play dates will quickly find they
have worn out their welcome.
Classes Demos and Conferences
Educational events are a great way to meet BDSM folk who are
interested in similar types of play.
Attend these events with your own education and experiences as a
goal, enjoy the fellowship, be friendly polite and participate as much
as possible. this will allow others to see you in a positive light
and possibly open the doorway to further conversations and interactions.
Again as with any BDSM event or social gathering, be on your best
behaviour and use the event as a tool to create a network of friends and
acquaintances, NOT as your personal cruising grounds.
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