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Where to look for a BDSM Partner

The best places to look for a BDSM partner will be found in your daily life or nearby. There are many ways BDSM folks come together to socialize and interact.  I will  cover a few of the basics. 

Munches, and other casual social gatherings.

Classes, demos, and conferences.

Parties and clubs.

BDSM Personals

 

Munches and other casual gatherings.

Many BDSM groups sponsor or host "Munches" , *for the history and detailed information about munches see HERE*, munches are a fun social gathering where like minded folks have the chance to meet, greet, and flirt. 

While many folks attending a munch may already be partnered or just not looking, some folks attending munches do attend for the opportunity presented to meet and possibly interact with other single/looking folks.

The main thing to remember is that the codes of conduct and etiquette always apply to any interaction in the munch environment. Be on your best manners, be charming, polite, courteous and pleasant company. 

Munches are a wonderful way to meet new folks, but remember any group organizer worth their salt, will be on the lookout for "sharks" cruising for a quick playdate. Those individuals who gain a reputation for cruising for play dates will quickly find they have worn out their welcome.

 

Classes Demos and Conferences

Educational events are a great way to meet BDSM folk who are interested in similar types of play. 

Attend these events with your own education and experiences as a goal, enjoy the fellowship, be friendly polite and participate as much as possible. this will allow others  to see you in a positive light and possibly open the doorway to further conversations and interactions.

Again as with any BDSM event or social gathering, be on your best behaviour and use the event as a tool to create a network of friends and acquaintances, NOT as your personal cruising grounds.

 

BDSM Personals


Add your SpankingPersonals.com:  http://www.spankingpersonals.com/
[International]

BDSM Lifestyle ISO:  http://latches.webslaves.com/iso [mainly US]

Bound And Whipped:  http://www.boundnwhipped.com/ [mainly US]

Ds Kiosk:  http://www.cuffs.com/nforum/T-list.htm [mainly US]

Dungeon/Personals:  http://www.leatherweb.com/hadfrme.htm [mainly
US/Canada]

Gabbia:  http://www.gabbia.com [Italy]

Informed Consent: http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/personals/ [UK -
Check out the whole site.  This - and Fetish
Net(http://www.fetish-net.org.uk/) - are easily the UK's best BDSM
resource centres]

JAGUAR's D/s-BDSM PERSONALS:
http://www.jagworld.com/pers/jag-pers.htm [mainly US]

Love & Chains:  http://come.to/love.and.chains [mainly US]

Out of the Shadows:  http://www.submission.net/PersonalAds.html
[International]

Moonkissed Personals:  http://www.moonkissed.org [UK/International]

Slappz:  www.digitaldiscipline.com/slappz/personals.html [UK]

Slave Trade:  http://www.slavetrade.com/ [International, and very
odd!]

Slaves Looking for Mistresses:
http://www.egroups.com/group/slaves-mistresses/info.html
[International]

Spanking Personals:  http://disc.server.com/Indices/19071.html [mainly
US]

Stephen's BDSM Personals:  http://www.sandm.com/main.htm
[International/mainly US]

Violently's Join Whois http://www.violently.com/jwhois.html [UK] - V
is reorganizing her site and the ads service is currently down

#bdsm-uk Free Personals: http://come.to/bdsmuk [UK] - linked to IRC
channel

#submission-uk:  http://www.submissionuk.org/ [UK] - linked to IRC
channel




Newsgroups

The alt newsgroups tend to be subject to spammed ads, aimed at those
who let their genitals do their thinking for them. This makes them
difficult to use, but I guess there's no harm in trying...

I've excluded regional (rather than national) newsgroups because there
are just too many of them.

alt.personals.bondage
alt.personals.bondage.gay
alt.personals.fetish
alt.personals.spanking
alt.personals.spanking.punishment
alt.sex.bondage.personals
alt.sex.personals.bondage
uk.adverts.personals
uk.people.bdsm.personals






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